Get Out Of the Mud

reading the comments at the end of the article is more interesting.
view points for and against state a defiante no!
and others say it has worked for them.
lets be truthful if an affair happens in a marraige is a breakdown in the marraige for some unknown reason, it is not always cut and dried. some adulterers are just cheats and will never change, but on reading the comments you will see that it has saved and made stronger other marraiges because they where unhappy and staying for the wrong reasons.

denial and betrayal is a terrible thing in marraige or not, and i believe the lady is saying that some marraiges are in a rut, they cannot see it, cannot , or will not communicate.
luckily i have never had it happen, but all marraiges hit rough patches….affairs/money/gambling….. nothing is ever rosy 24/7.

i am not condoning an affair at all, but there are cases for and against….. it is up to the person who has been cheated on if they can forgive, because you would never forget it.

.i would personally chop his bits off and feed then to the dogs!!! ha ha